'I decided I should eat to get that out of the way': Internet roasts guy who shows up 45 minutes early to dinner date for a pre-date meal and can't figure out why his date's livid

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    Posted by u/Potential-Trash-7890 1 day ago AITAH for eating before my date arrived to the restaurant?
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    So for context, I'm not a foodie. I eat to get full and not as an experience. I'll often eat at home before dinner outings just because I don't want to wait and rather enjoy the experience of the outting,
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    which for me doesnt involve the eating portion. I met this girl online and we agreed on meeting at a restaurant for dinner to get to know each other more. Fast
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    forward day of our date we agreed to meet at 9 pm. Now my day was super busy with work and I didn't get to eat lunch, and it's almost 8 pm, and I'm starving so I get ready and head to the date still having no food.
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    I like getting to a date early so I can check out the environment, pick the beat seats and just prepare in general so I arrived about 45 mins early this time.
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    Still starving I decided I should eat to get that out of the way or I'll be hungry and cranky having to wait another hour or so before I can eat. I finished my meal and ordered a cocktail, by this point my date is almost arriving.
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    She gets to the restaurant and we instantly click, she's smiling and we're having great conversation. She's touching my hand. It's over all going extremely well. Eventually she
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    asks if I would like to order some food to which I respond "No thank you I'm not hungry" and she insists saying she doesn't want to eat alone but I tell her don't worry and eat and that I am enjoying my cocktail.
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    So we call the waiter over and she starts asking him for recommendations to which he responds with no ill intentions that it seemed I really enjoyed the tacos so maybe she should try them.
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    At this point she's confused and asks what does that mean so I told her I ate some tacos before she arrived. She immediately becomes furious. Saying I'm e and who eats before a
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    date has even arrived. I explained to her that my goal was to get to know her and the eati g portion wasn't important. Regardless the whole mood changed. She ordered some
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    food, ate and made an excuse to have to go leave. I haven't heard from her since then and that was last night. So AITAH?
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    Wongon32 1 day ago YTA. You could have munched on a small entree or dinner roll before your date arrived. It's just uncomfortable for someone to eat alone while someone else is there, especially when you've just met. 12.9k Reply Share
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    7fishslaps 1 day ago YTA how f-ing awkward for her. You wanted to arrive 45 min early to check the vibe but didn't consider how awkward and uncomfortable she'd feel eating alone while you watched her. You could have had a snack at your house then got there 30 min early if it was really that important. Makes me think it wasn't really to check the place out but instead so you could eat asap because you were hungry. And the waiter def called you out on purpose because that was r e 8.3k Reply Share
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    Austen-aficionado - 1 day ago YTA. You were only thinking of your needs, not hers. A dinner date is a social event - a shared event. The "eating portion" is part of that. To make her eat alone is awful and awkward. It's like you asked her to a movie, then went to see the movie before she arrived because you really wanted to see it earlier, and then sat with her while she later watched the movie, but you did other things while the movie was playing.
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    Karma 1969. 1 day ago YTA. Wow, that's about the most clueless take on dating I've ever heard. You don't think it's weird that you had a date with a girl at a restaurant, and you got there early and ate without her, before she arrived? I'd have simply gotten up and left, never to see you again. You not being a foodie has nothing to do with it - people go on dates to restaurants to eat together, period. You should have just had bread while you waited.
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